Life isn't about keeping score.
It's not about how many friends you have.
Or how many people call you.
Or how accepted or unaccepted you are.
Not about if you have plans this weekend.
Or if you're alone.
It isn't about who you're dating,
who you use to date,
how many people you've dated,
or if you haven't been with anyone at all.
It isn't about who you have kissed. It's not about sex.
It isn't about who your family is
or how much money they have.
Or what kind of car you drive.
Or where you're sent to school.
It's not about how beautiful
or ugly you are.
Or what clothes you wear,
what shoes you have on,
or what kind of music you listen to.
It's not about if your hair is blonde, red, black, brown, or green.
Or if your skin is too light or too dark.
It's not about what grades you get,
how smart you are,
how smart everyone else thinks you are,
or how smart standardized tests say you are.
Or if this teacher likes you,
or if this guy/girl likes you.
Or what clubs you're in,
or how good you are at "your" sport.
It's not about representing your whole being on a piece of paper and seeing who will "accept the written you".
But
life is about
who you love and who you hurt.
It's about who you make happy or unhappy purposefully.
It's about keeping or betraying trust.
It's about friendship, used as sanctity, or as a weapon.
It's about what you say and mean, maybe hurtful, maybe heartening.
About starting rumors and contributing to petty gossip.
It's about what judgments you pass and why.
And who your judgments are spread to.
It's about who you've ignored with full control and intention.
It's about jealousy, fear, pain, ignorance, and revenge.
It's about carrying inner hate and love, letting it grow and spreading it.
But most of all, it's about using your life to touch or poison other people's hearts in such a way that could never occurred alone.
Only you choose the way these hearts are affected and those choices are what life is all about.
这是朋友寄给我的电邮，觉得很有意思，所以贴上来跟大家分享！
每天一早当我们一睁开眼睛，我们有两个选择，开心或不开心。
开心又一天，不开心又是一天，何不选择开心呢？
人生漫漫长路，若是伤心的时间比开心多，那人生就是灰色的，
相反地，若是开心的时间比伤心的时间多，那人生是色彩缤纷的！
我们其实都有得选择，只是看我们要不要而已。
一切唯心造。
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